CHEATING WIVES - IS YOUR WIFE ONE TOO?

The Top 3 Indicators of Infidelity

Technology is improving and straying from your current spouse is easier than ever.

If things between you and your wife have been weird and yet she has nothing to say when asked what’s bothering her, perhaps wanderlust has set in.

While it is impossible to know for sure without receiving your s/o’s confession or catching them in the act, there are some signs that can point you toward the truth.

Your partner may show all or or none of these signs, and it wouldn’t be definite proof that she is cheating. Most cases of adultery go undiscovered.

One thing is certain, if you have made it to this page, you are feeling some distance between you and your wife, and it is very likely they feel it too. This could be for a myriad of reasons including depression, stress, problems at work or with family, or dissatisfaction with you or your relationship.

Whatever the case may be, there is definitely work that needs done to determine if you intend on trying to keep this individual in your life.

So take these steps with a grain of salt and remember - these signs are more an indicator of someone’s unhappiness, than proof that they have strayed.

1. MOOD

One of the first signs that a wife is cheating is usually a huge shift in your mate’s mood and disposition. Has she suddenly gone cold? Suddenly sad? Angry or joyful? This may be an indicator that something is up. Cheating wives will have less patience for their partner and seem overly defensive.

It could extend to your family, friends, even your dog. A low tolerance for things she once found charming, screams goodbye. Conversely, a smart cheater will easily go above and beyond acting happy and loving to you in order to hide her infidelity.

If she is suddenly not herself for an extended period of time, look out!

2. ACTIONS

Is your wife suddenly absent? Staying after work for a little overtime? Willing to run errands you know she hates? Often the most noticeable and hurtful change is in a cheater’s behavior when interacting with their partner.

When bae looks better going for “groceries,” than she does for you on date night, the arrow is pointing toward cheat. Someone who is looking into having an affair will begin putting more effort in their appearance when they go out, and less effort into how they appear when with their partner.

Money habits change, often radically. It could be for gifts and dates, personal items, or things they cannot account for (it takes money to maintain those beau-phones and online accounts.) Maybe you notice an increase in computer or phone activity, changed passwords, scrambling to close or open new windows to keep you from seeing what she’s up to.

The bedroom changes as well. There is almost always a difference in the amount and willingness to show you affection. This could mean depriving you sexually and intimately or - a huge spike in their sex drive or sudden interest in “trying new things” that they never before expressed interest in.

Think she got that Brazilian is for you? The sudden willingness for some backdoor action? You may be greasing the path for the other lover. It is likely you are be being played for a fool and your wife is cheating.

3. UNWILLINGNESS TO COOPERATE

When you ask her what is wrong and the eye roll you receive allows her to see her own brain, yeah that is a sign. Your wife may dismiss the changes and insist you are the only one with an issue.

She blows up and gets very defensive and angry that you’re questioning them. Suddenly your genuine concern is spun around. She suggests maybe you are the one stepping out for a little strange.

She doesn’t express concern for you, your feelings, or the deteriorating relationship. You are being treated as a mere a place to stay, or a backup plan until she finally is comfortable enough with her side guy to move forward with their relationship.

This is the biggest indicator your wife has strayed because if the other signs you have noticed were truly innocent and coincidental, a loving partner would want to find a solution to the problems and not crush your ego, labido, and machismo in one fell swoop.

While no “signs” are absolute proof of infidelity, encountering more than a few of these signs are indicators of a partner who is unhappy in the relationship. She has a bag packed and a foot out the door. You may not find out that your partner is cheating on, but go with your gut.

If the feeling is there, she just isn’t the same, and these symptoms persist you may want to consider leaving anyway. It is time find someone who shows you the love you are craving.