HOW TO CHAT YOUR WAY TO A SEX DATE?

The biggest reason most relationships end, right above money troubles, is a reported lack of intimacy with their partner. What does that tell us?

Well, we all need to feel sexy and desired, or it often cuts into our own confidence and self esteem, which will take a toll on daily motivation. Whether you’re in a stale relationship or you’re single and longing to mingle, your hand just isn’t enough to keep you satisfied.

Pure and exhilarating adult chat can be just what one needs to sooth anxieties caused by work and life’s daily obligations. Where can look for sexy Adult Chat?

Casual Sex Chat rooms on sites like Victoria Milan strive to bring feisty adults together for a sensual time, and you can enjoy it all from the comfort of your own couch! Enjoy sexy exchanges from your laptop or mobile device and liven up your evenings and weekends!

The First Step - Choose an Alias

For once in your life, things are starting off with the simplest step first. It’s smooth sailing from now on.

All you must do now is make a profile and come up with a memorable name. Bonus points go to those who include their kink or sexual preferences!!

Adding things like your age or city can also speed the process along, as you won’t need to go over that while you’re talking.

The Second Step - Pick the Perfect Dating Site

There are many different types of dating sites all catered to different preferences, varying from sites like Victoria Milan, which attracts younger clientele, or Next Love, a site for older individuals who have been out of the game for awhile. Starting off with a site that indulges your tastes means less leg work for you.

Many Dating Sites allow you to alter your preferences based around certain age groups, or particular sexual preferences, such as piercing fetishes, bondage, feet fetish, voyeurism, bisexual, group sex, etc.

Read through your options and choose what turns you on most! Picking what is important to you is an important step, as it brings you together with individuals who are into the same kinks.

The Third Step - Get to Know The Audience

Now that your profile is complete, your mission is to scan the names of online users and also messages you recieve for anything that gets you worked up.

This differs completely for everyone. It could be age, confidence, physical attributes, favorite positions, use of language, or their fetish.

It doesn’t really matter what it is unless it matters to you. All that’s important is choosing some qualities to scope for. The more the better, because it might take a few tries before you find a chat partner you mesh with.

The more particular you are in this stage, only going for individuals who really turn you on, gives you a much better chance of still being turned on by them after speaking for a while.

The Fourth Step - Chatting

This step is all about the conversation. Getting to know your chat buddy and their sexual technique, to be sure they can satisfy you enough for the last step: meeting.

This can take days, weeks, even months, to feel comfortable enough to go all the way. The time it takes depends on the individuals involved.

While the timeline is totally organic and may or may not grow into real life sexual relations, the point is to have fun and explore your Chat Partner. Here are some good ways to start:

  1. Stay polite. No one is bringing a rude to bed.

  2. Show and tell. In this case, show sincerity in listening and put effort in your responses. This display of giving and taking will assure your chat buddy you can both give pleasure and receive it IRL.

  3. Be respectful. If you’re not showing consideration through text, it’s easy to assume you won’t respect them more when clothes are off and hormones are flowing. Make them feel comfortable when they’re making themselves vulnerable and you’ll leave them wanting more.

The Fifth Step - Remember Your ABCs

If you’re feeling a bit wary of taking chat and turning it into casual sex, let me refer back to the famous ninetys film GlenGarry Glen Ross where Blake gives an incredible speech on how to find success:

“A- Always, B- Be, C- Closing. Always be closing.”

In terms of trying to get a chat partner in bed, this means if you want to fuck, always be looking for new prospects, always be pitching new ideas to potential lovers, and always be working toward sealing the deal.

Pushing a conversation toward an end goal can feel off-putting for anyone not in sales, but it is what it takes to get users offline and in the sack.

Once you’ve thoroughly seduced your chat buddy online, secured details on a secret love nest to meet up at, all that’s left is throwing on your favorite negligee and heading out the door!

Good luck and happy hunting! ;)