Be a better cheater - How to cheat more discreetly

You may well be perfectly happy in your marriage but looking to add a little excitement to your life, so avoid the divorce courts and keep it quiet with our help. At Victoria Milan we know the best ways to be discreet and still enjoy fun and passion without worrying about getting caught.

Be Tech-Savvy

Firstly remember you live with your spouse, so it is difficult enough to keep anything from her/him. With technology today, your computer and tablet have a browsing history, your smartphone has numerous different messaging apps and there are even location apps that know exactly where you are at any given moment. All of these need to be disabled, your passcode regularly changed. If you really want to be discreet, buy a pay as you go phone and keep it somewhere you know your other half won’t find it, for example, your office or a locker at the gym.

Choose Your Lover Carefully

Choose someone who wants the same as you. Before you embark on an affair with that cute guy in the post-room at work or your personal fitness trainer maybe even your secretary – be sure you want the same things. That single secretary might have been dreaming of you for months on end but she’s single, she’s 25 and she actually secretly wants to get married and have children. It is so much easier to find someone who is in the same situation as you. Look for someone who wants some passion and no-strings-attached fun…someone who is perhaps married or in a long-term relationship just like you. That’s where Victoria Milan comes in. It’s an online dating site especially for married people who want to have an affair. The beauty of this website is that most of the members are likeminded people who want to meet up, have fun and not be caught by their spouse or ruin their marriage.

Cheat discreetly

Online Tips

If you’re going to use the Victorian Milan website it’ probably wise not to display your photograph publicly – this is the first mistake people make. This doesn’t mean you won’t know what your potential lover will look like, there are ways round this. Check your settings online and re-check them regularly! By the same token, if you are going to create an online profile be careful how it reads. Don’t give too many clues away about where you live, what your job is, what you love to do, how old your children are – anything that might make someone trying to prove you are having an affair think it’s you.

Create A New Email Address

Create a new email address and try not to access it from home. If you can, access it from a different device somewhere else so the IP address has no relation to your home’s IP. Make sure your online dating site of choice uses this email and this email only. When you do use the web, as well as removing your history use a private browsing mode so for Chrome, go “incognito” just click the three dots on the tab in the far right hand corner and select the incognito window. Similarly, you can do the same for FireFox and choose private browsing mode. This stops others seeing what you’ve been searching for or viewing.

Get Outta Town!

Meet your fling out of town. Don’t risk a local coffee shop, restaurant, park or public place in your area – you will be seen. Go out of town or wait until your other half is away but always be aware you have friends and acquaintances where you live especially if your house is on a gossipy road!

Don’t Get Emotionally Attached

If you’re just looking for fun, keep it as fun. If emotions begin to appear then the chances are, it’s not going to end well and you may well be discovered. This works both ways so if you see your lover developing feelings it’s time to end it. Likewise, if you start to develop feelings but want to remain married you should walk away and remember there’s plenty more fish in the sea.

Keep It Quiet

When you’re having fun it’s natural to want to tell the world that you’re having the best sex or you’re doing something you shouldn’t be doing because it feels so good. Don’t be tempted to tell anyone, even your best friend because sooner or later that secret might be shared with someone else and then it’s out in your circle which means it could be curtains for your marriage. Learn to keep your mouth shut – much of the excitement is in harbouring a secret of your own. With all of the advice above there’s no reason why you can’t have a discreet affair so don’t just read about it – get on-board with thousands of others and join victoriamilan.com today!