The Art of Female Seduction: What Drives Men Crazy

The myth of men not enjoying or having time for foreplay has been shattered, with a new survey revealing that nearly three-quarters of men like to include foreplay in their bedroom routine, and make time for it in the majority of their sexual encounters.

The survey conducted by Victoria Milan – a dating website for married and attached people looking to cheat – delved into the bedrooms of 7,158 of its male members to peel back the covers on their preferences.

Men love it when women take the initiative, the majority said – as long as her approach is respectful, sexy and not too aggressive.  While 75% says foreplay is important, they’re not necessarily talking about the physical.  Mental foreplay gets 68% of men aroused.

The key to success in the bedroom for ladies starts with the top three most sensitive or erogenous zones.  While 21% of men surveyed say their genitals are the most sensitive part of their body, surprisingly the chin and neck come a close second and third place.

Founder and CEO of Victoria Milan, Sigurd Vedal, said the results show that men are more attentive and sensitive in the bedroom than women give them credit for.

“Taking the time for mental and physical foreplay, identifying erogenous zones and enjoying it when the woman takes the initiative are all signs that men love pleasing women.  The fact that these encounters might be with someone outside your relationship adds an extra element of danger, excitement and lust,” Mr Vedal said.

SURVEY RESULTS

Survey conducted among 7,158 male members of Victoria Milan

Do you like it when a woman takes the initiative?

Yes - 67%

No - 33%

What is the most important factor? (multiple – choice)

That her approach is not aggressive - 25%

That is does it in a sexy manner - 35%

That she does not show disrespect or take advantage - 61%

That she does it without trying too hard - 22%

She uses humour in the right way - 18%

Do you like foreplay?

I like it - 75%

I don’t think it’s that important - 25%

How often to you take the time for proper foreplay?

Every time I have sex - 12%

Around 70% of the time - 62%

Half the time - 13%

Less than 30% of the time - 8%

Never  - 5%

Which is the most sensitive part of your body?

Neck - 12%

Ears - 7%

Buttocks - 8%

Chin - 13%

Inner thighs - 10%

Genitals - 21%

Feet - 7%

Eyelids - 6%

Back of the knees - 5%

Lower abs - 11%

Do you think you get turned on more by foreplay with the body or the mind?

With the mind - 68%

With the body - 32%