Affair: Talk Dirty to Me

The invention of the internet, smart phones and instant messenger have greatly expanded the options for having a married affair.

Flirting and having virtual sex with your partner. But where does that leave good old phone sex?

Because of the popularity of other virtual chatting opportunities, phone sex is even more erotic than ever before, since many people have never experienced the excitement of getting off on the sound of their partner’s voice.

If you are using Victoria Milan to find a secret affair, expand your horizons by offering your lover phone sex.

Phone sex traditionally meant talking dirty over the phone. Although many people enjoy flirting and sexting using smart phones, having traditional phone sex is much hotter. Imagine stealing away from your job or your home to have a brief telephone affair. This can happen anywhere you can find a few minutes of privacy - in your car, in a hotel, or even in your office (with the door closed of course!)

How do you start having phone sex? First of all, relax! There is no one right way to have phone sex. Remember, once you have found your affair at Victoria Milan, it’s your time to be yourself. Start by flirting, stating what you find attractive about your partner. The next step is to describe what you would be doing to your lover if he or she was right there with you. Don’t be shy! You were both looking for an adult affair, so just go with what you feel in the moment.

Unlike texting, where messages are often sent but not read until later, the verbal exchange is immediate. Visualize all the details of your fantasy sexual encounter. You are probably wondering if people ever masturbate during phone sex. That is up to the individual, but many people get off when they are in the privacy of their home or hotel.

Almost any scenario is fair game for phone sex, and many couples who are having an affair use phone sex to test out new kinky sex games, like BDSM, that they might want to try in person later on. It’s also fun to try on new personas, or role play. At Victoria Milan, we want you to have your affair your way. That’s why we offer search functions for everything from a long-term relationship to virtual flirting only. The only limit is your imagination.