I happen to have extensive knowledge on what women want in bed. I make articles about sex. I interview women about sex and I am pretty sure that no one will send a hit man on me for what I am about to say. Again, let me remind you that everyone is different, however, certain things work for most of us.
YES To Equality
Unless you agreed on otherwise off course. It is important that both parties come out of it with equally pulsating privates from a joint effort. I am talking about two things; it is very important that the woman experience equal pleasure to you. But she also must put in equal amount of effort, which can be quite rare at times. Give her space to take control and lead the show occasionally.
Don’t Expect Blow Jobs
If you want to up your skills in bed then don’t expect a blow job. Off course blow jobs are preferable, and you might get it every time anyway, but most men have a tendency to expect it and not consider if its mutual. It will be much better for both if she is equally keen on giving.
Don’t Have Lazy Hands
I have heard from many women that men have lazy hands when touching them. Specially the breasts and jackpot area. I can only imagine a lazy hand on my cock and I KNOW how frustrating that can be.
Pay Close Attention
See what turns her on. Did she get wet when you touched her ass? Maybe continue exploring that then. If not, try something else. Take mental notes. It’s not an easy deal to evaluate in the heat of things, but you will pick up a sign or two if you pay attention.
Don’t Insist, Change It Up!
If you want a blowjob and she is not feeling it, then maybe returning the favour first might change her mind? If you top that off by testing some limits the moment she is about to come then maybe she will even suggest it next time!
Remember practice makes perfect. Just make sure you know what you like and how far you want to go. Make the woman comfortable and show her how much pleasure can come from her meetings with you. Then she might even want to hook up again and save you another 200 quid on escorts?
