People usually go to escorts because they want kinky sex. But how can you have sex in the same unapologetic way with normal women without scaring them off? I can imagine this one is useful to many of you. Because having a sexy woman in your bed which is willing to have sex with you, does not guarantee success. Unfortunately, many are victims of a post-moral-church area where guilt and embarrassment links closely to sex way too directly.
So, how can you help them out?
Be In The Moment – Make Her Comfortable
Sex is about the two (or more) people involved. Don’t expect the same you have experienced before and go with the flow. If you are comfortable then she will be too. Focus on her and let her know you are there to make her feel good without judging. This might open her up to some suggestions she hasn’t considered before.
Remember That She Has Wet Dreams Too
She no doubt has wet fantasies she is not telling you about. Make sure point number one is sorted and tell her you are willing to do anything she is keen on exploring with you. Ask her directly, when the time is right, if there is anything new she would like to try.
Dominate and Introduce
Push the limits. It’s nice to know your and her limits, but always be happy to see how far you can push them in a comfortable way. People usually tend to ease up after some cuddles, so start by playing respectfully, then naturally progress from there. She will probably only get turned on by seeing you getting more decisive and firm.
Focus On Her
If you want her to finger you in the anus whilst sucking you off then she might need some motivation. Start by focusing on her pleasure and you will open the doors. Any woman will at least think twice if you make her come seven times first. Just a tip!
Don’t Be Clumsy
There are a lot of tips online (!) about how to have better sex. There are also a lot of information about what women want in bed, even if this varies from person to person, a dick is a dick and that makes it easier. Escorts or not. When I was 14 I met a woman, who was a couple of years older and very comfortable. She guided me through her likes and dislikes and I never regret it. It doesn’t matter how, but make sure you gather some skills in bed and knowledge on the female anatomy. Porn doesn’t count. That does not represent more than a fraction of reality.
