What to Wear For Casual Sex Encounters?

Since we all notice a person’s appearance before having a chance to speak, your outfit should do some talking for you. Dressing too provocatively can scare a person away who is looking for love, but casual dating is the perfect time to dust off your corset and garter and work what you’ve got!

While everyone’s own personal style differs, the goal of a hookup outfit should be the same. Your outfit will attract people with similar tastes, so try to keep your date in mind while choosing something that is comfortable and that makes you feel sexy.

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Make sure to do your hair and make-up. It polishes the look and gives you a bump of confidence. Just consider potential messes when choosing lip color. A stain might be best.
Garments with zippers or stretchy bodycon dresses both feed a man’s imagination of how easy they’d be to remove.
Since foot fetishism is the dominant fixation for most men, don’t skimp on your footwear. This is a great time to rock your favorite stilettos, platforms, heeled boots, or elegant sandals. This is the one area where being difficult to remove doesn’t matter since you’re most likely going to be taking them off yourself. Wouldn’t want to miss the opportunity for the classic bend-and-unsnap.

Don’t Disregard the Lingerie

This is the final thing he’ll see before the main exhibit, so don’t dissapoint.

Consider the hue, as color plays a big role in emotion. These are some of the most common colors used in undergarments, but certainly not your only choices. Don’t be discouraged to wear what looks best on you.

Black conjures thoughts of mystery, power, and seduction.
White, in contrast, represents innocence, softness, and perfection.
Red is linked with our most primal urges, associated with passion, lust, vitality, and strength.
Nude(beige, gold, brown, tan) and all of it’s varying neutral shades are calming, crisp, and represent the same purity, elegance, and innocence as ivory. Avoid looking too blah by choosing satin or a textured cloth.

Don’t wear something complicated to take on and off, or something worn out. You don’t need to go out and buy something silky or lacey for the occasion, but do choose something that’s nice, looks sexy, and most importantly something you feel comfortable in.

No matter how sexy your panties maybe, if they’re constantly riding up or itchy, the discomfort on your face is going to show and seriously cut back on your sex appeal.

Consider Who You’re Going Out With

Being too dressy around someone more low-key can give off a snooty air, while not dressing up enough for someone more established will appear lazy or sloppy. Put some time into considering your date’s own style, personality, and any fetishes they have.

A successful older man might enjoy a nice, classy dress.
A more outgoing younger guy won’t be scared off by a skimpier dress, bold makeup, and shiny accessories.
A rocker type will dig your favorite band tee, fishnets, and a fitted pencil skirt.

DON’T WEAR

No one wraps presents in cellophane. Seeing everything all at once on a person equally quells excitement of opening the gift. Additionally, a bounty cloaked in duct tape is just going to leave the recipient frustrated and fruitless.

Make it easy for your date so he can feel confident and adequate while peeling off your layers. Anything that makes you look like a lady of the night - unless that’s a fantasy of theirs. But do consider you’re going to have to be seen in whatever you choose on your way to meet him. Maybe flirt with the idea of a trench coat to build anticipation for the big reveal.

Skinny Jeans

You don’t need your man punching himself in the face when your hips finally release those pants. Despite how banging they may make your booty, if something is hard for you to get on, it’ll be equally hard to take off.

Tights

Not only can these high waisted accoutrements appear a bit granny, they also prevent him from brushing up against skin. If you must, wear thigh-highs. They’re easier to remove and SO SEXY.

Complex Lingerie

If you think you’re sensing a pattern here, you’re right. While undergarments with lots of straps or cutouts are super hot in photos, they’re also a man’s worst nightmare. Anything that takes a couple minutes for you to put on, a man will never figure out how to seize it.

The art of seduction is complex and your appearance places a pivotal role in how you are perceived. A careless decision to wear something frumpy or unfitting can crush the mood you and your casual dating partners have been building together. Spend some quality time in front of your mirror trying your different options until you find the look that works for you.